S\u01a1 l\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3, \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim<\/strong><\/h2>\nCu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0110\u00e0n \u00d4ng Sao H\u1ecfa \u0110\u00e0n B\u00e0 Sao Kim c\u1ee7a Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 John Gray kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 s\u00e2u v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gi\u00fap h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u00fd ni\u1ec7m m\u1edbi m\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
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Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 John Gray, m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a 12 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n trong su\u1ed1t 30 n\u0103m qua v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00ed chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5p b\u1eb1ng b\u1edfi H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Qu\u1ed1c gia. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 bi\u00ean t\u1eadp vi\u00ean chuy\u00ean t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a T\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a Ban T\u01b0 v\u1ea5n Xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n M\u1ef9. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, \u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ba con t\u1ea1i B\u1eafc California.<\/p>\n
Theo t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 John Gray, xung kh\u1eafc gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian th\u00e2n m\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng hay s\u1edf th\u00edch, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thu h\u1eb9p kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3, mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1eef k\u00edn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong l\u00f2ng, trong khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00edch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf<\/strong><\/h2>\nCu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim \u0111\u00e3 cung c\u1ea5p cho ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 gi\u1eefa nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n khi chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n trong ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m.<\/p>\n
Theo ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 John Gray, nam gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 y\u00ean t\u0129nh v\u00e0 l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Khi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u00ed quy\u1ebft n\u00e0y v\u1eabn gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y nay, gi\u00fap t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n th\u01b0 th\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p trong c\u00e1c khung c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9… Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u? \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 “kh\u00edch l\u1ec7” cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
\n- Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f4 d\u00e0nh cho anh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac anh c\u1ea7n c\u00f4, c\u00f4 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho anh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c.<\/li>\n
- \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd d\u1ed1c h\u1ebft to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 sinh l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1edf che ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, anh s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch lau kh\u00f4 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ea1ng “kh\u00edch l\u1ec7” th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nghe m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo.<\/p>\n
V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng “Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n h\u01a1n.”<\/p>\n
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Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mong mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ph\u00eda \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. C\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 cho nhau sau nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 ti v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/strong><\/h2>\nTheo \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim, trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n nh\u1edd v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t?<\/p>\n
\u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac “n\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng” \u0111ang n\u1ed5i l\u00ean v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00fang ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 c\u00e1c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u00fang t\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u0110\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. \u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao nh\u01b0 mua m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe m\u1edbi cho h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn du l\u1ecbch, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng khi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
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Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u00fat ra<\/strong><\/h2>\nSau khi \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 an to\u00e0n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd khi kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 xung quanh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i xem h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng “anh h\u00f9ng” khi t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u1eebng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng nhau, chia s\u1ebb, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n T\u00ccNH NGH\u0128A trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng cao.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\nCu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim \u0111\u00e3 cung c\u1ea5p cho ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 gi\u1eefa nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n khi chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n trong ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m.<\/p>\n
Theo ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 John Gray, nam gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 y\u00ean t\u0129nh v\u00e0 l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Khi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u00ed quy\u1ebft n\u00e0y v\u1eabn gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y nay, gi\u00fap t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n th\u01b0 th\u00e1i.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p trong c\u00e1c khung c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9… Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u? \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 “kh\u00edch l\u1ec7” cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
\n- Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef s\u1ebd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f4 d\u00e0nh cho anh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac anh c\u1ea7n c\u00f4, c\u00f4 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho anh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c.<\/li>\n
- \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd d\u1ed1c h\u1ebft to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 sinh l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1edf che ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, anh s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch lau kh\u00f4 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ea1ng “kh\u00edch l\u1ec7” th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nghe m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo.<\/p>\n
V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng “Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n h\u01a1n.”<\/p>\n
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Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mong mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ph\u00eda \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. C\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 cho nhau sau nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 ti v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/strong><\/h2>\nTheo \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim, trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n nh\u1edd v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t?<\/p>\n
\u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac “n\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng” \u0111ang n\u1ed5i l\u00ean v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00fang ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 c\u00e1c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u00fang t\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u0110\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. \u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao nh\u01b0 mua m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe m\u1edbi cho h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn du l\u1ecbch, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng khi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
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Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u00fat ra<\/strong><\/h2>\nSau khi \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 an to\u00e0n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd khi kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 xung quanh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i xem h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng “anh h\u00f9ng” khi t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u1eebng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng nhau, chia s\u1ebb, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n T\u00ccNH NGH\u0128A trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng cao.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ea1ng “kh\u00edch l\u1ec7” th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nghe m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo.<\/p>\n
V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng “Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n h\u01a1n.”<\/p>\n
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Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mong mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ph\u00eda \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng. C\u00f4 mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 cho nhau sau nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 ti v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/strong><\/h2>\nTheo \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim, trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n nh\u1edd v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t?<\/p>\n
\u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac “n\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng” \u0111ang n\u1ed5i l\u00ean v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00fang ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 ranh gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd b\u00ecnh t\u00e2m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 c\u00e1c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u00fang t\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi<\/strong><\/h2>\n\u0110\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. \u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao nh\u01b0 mua m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe m\u1edbi cho h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn du l\u1ecbch, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng khi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
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Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u00fat ra<\/strong><\/h2>\nSau khi \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng sao Ho\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 sao Kim, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nam v\u00e0 n\u1eef, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 an to\u00e0n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd khi kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 xung quanh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i xem h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng “anh h\u00f9ng” khi t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u1eebng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng nhau, chia s\u1ebb, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n T\u00ccNH NGH\u0128A trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n
Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng cao.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. \u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1edbn lao nh\u01b0 mua m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe m\u1edbi cho h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn du l\u1ecbch, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng khi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n
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Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. \u0110\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n